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Blindfold a dude, tie him up, and make out with his gorgeous wife? Sounds great.
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I was as curious about them as they were about lesbian sex. The price of curiosity is steep: Cis women submit profiles for vetting before they are permitted to purchase a ticket.
That vetting process includes sexual orientation. After an hour at the party, I wondered if I would have been invited if I were not for hire.
I am, to be sure, a Kinsey 5. But here we were, hired lesbians at the straight girl party like foxes in the hen house, and after our scene we took the chance to explore. The room, a dark and low-lit, red and black adorned loft space turned high-end dungeon, was packed with scantily clad women dressed to impress. Black garters, leather skirts, Cuban-heeled Black lesbian swingers los angeles., and some well-placed electrical tape.
A group sat in a circle on the floor around an empty bottle of Veuve Clicquot, playing spin the bottle.
I carefully stepped my own stilettos over them, traversing the space, looking for a bathroom, a quick lipstick retouch necessary after the heat of my scene left me dripping in more ways than one.
Lipstick is a touchstone of Skirt Club.
There was not a butch in sight. A friend of mine, writer and sex educator Vanessa Carlislealso attended the party, and later told me that she was ready to leave when the bottle started spinning: As I watched, an eager brunette spun and the uncorked remains of the bottle that got everyone onto the floor in the first place.
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But neither does femme invisibility, sort of: There was not femme present on purpose or principle or for resistance. Inclusion is not a priority here: The party was ethnically and racially diverse, surprising given that the promotion and media coverage have been overwhelmingly white.
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